Its a brand new year, and the gym this past week has been quite a bit fuller (as it always is for the first few weeks in January), as so many people have a New Years resolution along the lines of shedding a few pounds or getting in shape. The further it gets from Jan 1, the empty the gym gets until February rolls around and its just the normal gym crowd, with maybe one or two new additions. While I prefer the gym emptier (its much easier for me to get MY workout in) I certainly don't want to discourage anyone from setting goals and achieving them; simply put, I think New Years resolutions are a bit of a farce. If you really
really wanted to set a goal and achieve it, why wait for a new year? Why not start today? Why not make it realistic, and worthy of your time, rather than a generic, "I want to not be fat this year". What does "fat" mean? What do want to do about it? What are YOU going to DO about it?
The solution to to set S.M.A.R.T Goals, which makes goals achievable. No one woke up and was magically smarter, or thinner or completely successful, but by making a plan, all of those things can happen! S.M.A.R.T Goals are behind so many successful motivational speakers and books, as well as many weight loss programs, they are just marketed differently. So, now that the secret is out, what is a S.M.A.R.T Goal you ask?
S - Specific
Make your goal something specific that you want to achieve. They best way to create a specific goals is to use the 5 Ws
- What I want to accomplish
- Why I want to accomplish this
- Who is involved
- Where I will accomplish this
- Which things do I need to achieve this
The 5 Ws help, because they bring the goal down to something that is tangible. Rather than saying simply "I want to lose weight", think about how much specifically, why is it that you are wanting to lose weight, is it simply shedding pounds, or is it more about a healthier lifestyle? Can you do this on your own, or do you need some help (trainer, nutritionist, spouse eating healthy too), the possibilities are endless.
M - Measurable
This is a very important part of any goal. Saying "I want to lose weight" doesn't let us know when we will be satisfied, or help us to see when we have made progress and when we have completed our goal. Break the goal down into several smaller and measurable segments. Say "I want to lose 20 lbs, and to do this I want to lose 1 lb per week". This is something you can see and track, which helps to make the goal more realistic (which we come to shortly).
A - Attainable/Achievable
Not that all goals are not achievable, but sometimes we get a bit ahead of ourselves. If you struggle to walk to the mailbox, maybe your immediate goal shouldn't be to run a marathon (not that that goal cannot ever be a reality, just that today's goal should be an intermediary step). Make a goal that will be a challenge to yourself, but not one that will constantly seem unattainable. The idea of goal setting is to help us, not discourage us so far that we give up. This is a common mistake of people making goals about lifestyle and fitness. The goal is so unrealistic and unattainable that people give up long before they reach that goal. By setting a goal that is achievable, you are more likely to keep it, because you can see the success of accomplishing your goal. And the good part is, when you reach one achievable milestone, whats to stop your from making another one? (Please don't wait until NEXT New Years to make another resolution).
R - Relevant & Realistic
Make the goal relevant and meaningful to YOU. Although the goal "I want stack 500 red cups into a pyramid before lunch today" is a very specific, measurable, achievable and time bound, what is the point? Set a goal for yourself that has meaning behind it for you. Ask yourself, is this worthwhile, and why? If you cannot answer those questions, then maybe your goal needs a bit of revamping.
T - Timely
Set a time limit on your goals. Having no set time limit is another reason why people often do not follow their goals through. If you say I want to lose weight, you've left your goal unbounded, and then there is no reason to see progress, because there is no end in sight. By setting limits it is easier to achieve smaller goals, and then have them add up to a bigger goal. A goal such a losing 30 lbs might seem completely unattainable, whereas losing 3 lbs, is something that can be seen. Set your goal to lose 3 lbs in 2 weeks, and then, do that 10 times and you've achieved your true goal. It a lot easier to run a marathon when you start out walking around the block first. Set limits, and hold yourself accountable.
Setting goals is incredibly important to achieving them. So many people say "I want to be thin", when really they should be setting goals to live a healthier lifestyle. I like goals that involve all of self, not just the pounds we don't like. Just over a year ago I set a goal for myself to "Be healthier". I broke this down into several smaller steps in order to make it feasible.
Here are some of the steps involved in my goals from Nov 2011
- I want to be healthier because living healthy is important to me. I want to treat my body properly, and by putting garbage in, I will get garbage out.
- I will walk to and from school every single day, rain or shine.
- I will exercise for at least 30 minutes at least 3 times a week.
- I will be able to run 10 km by April 2012.
- I will drink at least 2 litres of water every single day.
- I will pack a healthy lunch so I am not tempted to buy unhealthy things to fill me up.
- I will put vegetables on my plate first, and they will fill half my plate.
I had a lot more mini steps, and sometimes added things as I saw fit. I wrote down my goals somewhere that I would see them every single day. This allowed me to make them more tangible. When I got to a point where my goal became habit, I cross it off the list, since it was something I didn't need to work towards anymore (a good example was upping my water intake, as now I can't not drink more than 2L a day, so its no longer a goal, just something I do). When I accomplish my smaller goals, I can set bigger ones, and add to the list.
Another important part of goal setting is reevaluating. If something isn't working, or isn't realistic, change it. That doesn't mean give up after 3 days because its a little bit hard, it means alter things, make them more realistic and keep going. Your goals should be challenging, but not so hard that you give up exasperated. Remember the steps, keep them SMART and enjoy!